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DECEMBER 2018… the sweet chestnuts have all fallen now, their leaves the last to go, olives gathered are in, firewood being brought nearer to the house, and still the mushrooms continue to appear..

… EL POCITO is for sale  (read more about this further down the page)…  you too could change your life

Hi, and welcome to my site about simple living, or how to become more self-sufficient, less dependent on money/ having a job.  Based on many years of practical experience, good and bad.  With stuff like: how to believe in yourself (not get sucked into the allure of quick-fix faiths and isms)/ avoid the need for a huge income or job/ take back the responsibility for your own health/ make & grow as much for yourself as possible/ and above all do it in a way which puts the planet first, which means not taking any more out (like everyone else) but putting back, ie acting sustainably.

What this site isn’t, is any kind of manifesto or life coaching.  Either for others to follow, or feel they have to comment upon, especially negatively, so please remember that.  Nor am I claiming to be an expert on anything, this is just what I’ve picked up along the way over 25+ years of treading the path and thought others would find useful (especially the mistakes).  It’s been a hard and often very isolating way of life, going totally against what everyone else believes in so whole-heartedly, so it is good to know there are others out there doing the same thing.

Until October 2013, we were Maureen and Phil Rooksby.  Originally from South London, where in the mid 1970s we started out as freshly-minted (art) teachers.  A choice based on disappointing A level results (neither of us was any good at exams) and the shared fear that otherwise we’d have to spend the rest of our lives in low-paid/ boring jobs and not much in the way of holidays/ free time.  We secretly hoped that being art teachers would provide the opportunity to satisfy our developing creative appetites while getting paid for it.  It was a big mistake, but did pave the way into another kind of career, one we had previously not been aware of and a lot more exciting and rewarding.  The alternative world of community arts, which had just begun around that time.  Taking us from London to Milton Keynes (during its formative years), then to North Yorkshire.  By 1986 Maureen was busy setting Leeds on fire with community arts at the West Yorkshire Playhouse, and I began to put some ideas together for making our home and one acre garden more self-sufficient.  Then in 2000 we made a life-changing decision.  To sell the house, give up working and live in a van.  An epic nine-year odyssey, in which we searched for meaning of life/ our own creativity, and the one place on earth perfect enough to have everything we ever wanted.

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The journey is best left for Maureen to describe, in her book: TREAD SOFTLY BECAUSE YOU TREAD ON MY DREAMS. Available free (as a download) simply by clicking here.


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Also highly recommended are her blogs, now available in a single book entitled MUSINGS ON A MORE SIMPLE LIFE.  Available free (as a download) simply by clicking here.

During that time we explored NW Spain/ Portugal/ an island in British Columbia (Canada)/ and then the Sierra de Aracena in SW Spain, before finally finding El Pocito in 2009, the one and only place that fitted most of our criteria:

somewhere we would be able to live without debt.  No mortgage/ rent/ utility bills/ or any other charge on our time, and with all the natural resources not only to build a home, but provide our food/ fuel/ other building materials/ electricity/ medicine/ plus earn cash when necessary.

our own water supply.  Originally we wanted it to be nothing less than a spring, but they proved so hard to find we eventually settled on a borehole instead, where the water is as natural/ unpolluted/ and plentiful as possible.  Also we wanted to be where there was at least one metre of rainfall per year, in order to be able to capture and store as much as that for non-drinking purposes.

high up.  At +/- 600 metres.  This is because the further you go the less extreme the climate becomes (all-year-round)/ humidity is lower/ pollution less/ but probably most important of all right now (with the imminent melting of both polar ice-caps and a subsequent 50m rise in sea-level), there’s absolutely no risk from flooding or tsunamis.

south-facing.  Having tried all the other options this is undoubtedly the best.  For crops/ minimising frost damage/ solar & wind power/ as well as being a lot warmer and lighter indoors.

with a soil that is as sandy as possible.  All the others just make the job a lot harder.

where neighbours are as far away as possible.  Which is not as easy as it sounds, for even with 2.5 hectares that’s still at best only 200 metres, unless like here you are surrounded by nothing but trees.

proximity to a local town was crucial as well, it had to be no further away than an easy walk/ cycle.  And small, +/- 500 people.  Almonaster la Real is perfect. While at the same time as far away as possible from any cities (Sevilla, the nearest, is 120 km).

well away from all roads and any other hazards to healthiness.

a climate where we can grow the widest range of crops all-year-round.

where we could have the perfect house, the most practical/ healthy/ and inspirational living space possible.

Sadly, in 2013 Maureen got sick, then suddenly was gone. But her vision for a more sustainable/ simpler/ healthier/ and creative life continued, and on the following pages you can see/ read all about that. Also included are some of the many influences/ ideas we came across over the years.  I hope you enjoy dipping into them. Please feel free to ask questions, I am always happy to help in any way I can.

Maureen dying like that was a terrible blow, we had been together for 35 years.  Until it happens you can never imagine what that does to you.  Basically you cease to exist and the pain never gets any less.  But thanks to the amazing people of Almonaster la Real (my local village), I have kept going and trying to find a new way without her.  It can never be the same again, I know this, but hoped to be able to carry on here.  Which has been possible, but also very hard, so with deep regret I have decided to sell and make a fresh start somewhere else, of course still along all the same lines.

For those interested in whether this may be something they’d like to take on the following pages pretty much describe everything involved, but obviously it could be anything to anyone.  Ideally I would like a very energetic couple or small group/ community (say of up to six people), to take it over.  Have a read and then send me an email (monkeyandsofia@yahoo.co.uk) with any questions.  The original asking price was 130,000 euros, but this has now been reduced to 125,000 euros ono.

Very briefly, El Pocito is situated in a very large area of forestry (pine/ sweet chestnut/ oak), approximately 182,000 hectares (the Sierra de Aracena).  It contains: approximately 2.5 hectares of land/ a small off-grid house (42m2) with solar power/ and own borehole.  The site is south-west facing and sloping, at a height above sea-level of 600m.  Access is via a forestry track, 2km to the road, and a further 1km to Almonaster la Real (which has with all the facilities).

Please note I do not have internet accesss (by choice), so please be patient for the reply.


Thanks also to  Nacho Suárez Obel who provided many of the photos for this site.

some thoughts to ponder…

“To be free (as it is possible to be) you first have to escape the gravitational force of con-vention, that insidious pressure of con-suming created by those who rule over us to enslave and conform.  Once you have overcome the great cons of our current epoch, and are well clear of its influence, then the entire universe will open out for you to explore.”

“It may seem wrong to ignore the sum of our collective knowledge, but land left alone, from human interference/ culture, will (given time) become infinitely more diverse and sustainable than any treatment we have or could ever devise.  If in doubt always do nothing.”       

There are only two solutions which will save us from imminent extinction.

They are:

1) An immediate global ban on all further births, until such time the total population is reduced to a sustainable level again (more on what that means in a moment).

2) A similar ban on the use of money, but permanently.

And the reasons?  Because this is the only way we can save the planet (and by implication, ourselves).  That unique self-governing eco-system, composed of an ever-expanding number of interdependent species, created in such a way, so infinitesimally complex, that even all our collective brain-power and computer-resources could never even begin to guess how it functions.  The sole provider of all the necessities we take for granted.  From oxygen we need to breathe, water, food, fuel, in fact everything.  Such an infinitely complex mechanism, that for us to tinker with any part of it is to court disaster.  Which of course is exactly what we have been doing, for the last 10,000 years.

Yet before that we were actually a positive and integral part of this wonderful creation.  For three million years, 98% of our existence.  We did this by acting sustainably.  Which meant keeping our numbers to a pre-determined level (around 5 million), and not taking anything out of nature (be it species or materials) that could not be replaced with exactly the same.  Then for some reason, 10,000 years ago, we decided to opt out of that.  At first it didn’t seem to matter, but our destruction was exponential, each new day it was worse, until now a single minute creates more damage than a thousand years at the beginning.  And there is so little left of the eco-system it is on the point of implosion.  We are all about to die.  Today, tomorrow, next week, next year.  Nobody knows when exactly.  But this is certain, it will happen soon.  Children born today will not live to become adults.

Sustainability is not rocket science.  If we want a future we have to stop taking out, stop using money, stop multiplying.

Which leaves just the one question, are you prepared to do that?     

“…each world has a song that is begun with the first life on a world, a song that sounds within the world to foster life and variation.  All living creatures are a part of the song which shall be sung forever, until the last star goes out… sometimes living creatures do not wish to be part of the song, they do not hear it, they rise up against it, they cry that they are larger than the song and more important than the music, and when their words drown out the song, then the world begins to die…”

(Sheri S Tepper)

“Let your boat of life be light, packed with only what you need – a homely home and simple pleasures, one or two friends, a cat, a dog, and a pipe or two, enough to eat and enough to wear”

(Jerome K Jerome)

“There is only one cause for the ills of this world, and that is money.  The purest souls among us are those who have none, for they spend nothing and harm nothing.  It is an oxymoron to claim to be righteous, walk lightly on the earth AND have money.”

“The longing for Nature, strong, silent and healthy, is the vital phenomenon of our time, and is the counterbalance to an inorganic civilisation, which we mistakenly describe as culture.”

(Viktor Schauberger)

“…by making the choice, not to have or do what everyone else considers right, you not only no longer have bills to pay but can experience that unique freedom of being able to live your own life …”

a simpler life, el pocito, solar powered

  1. felix said:

    Mucho Animo Phil, yo tambien busco gente para formar una ecoaldea y la verdad que me esta costando encontrar gente que se comprometa y que tenga las cosas claras para hacerlo.

    Un beso y abrazo y no decaigas

  2. Sunny said:

    Hi Phil, stumbled onto your site and really enjoying browsing and reading up on what you have created. I am feeling: simplicity, harmony and beauty and the love of nature. What a wonderful project. I offer condoleances for the passing of your partner and all best wishes for the future of your lovely home, the evolution of your work and lifestyle and your own deeper fulfilment.

  3. Katrina said:

    Hi Phil,
    I saw your ad in Permaculture Magazine so went to look at your site. . . I love the DVD you made showing your home and the garden. From 2003-2009 I lived in Andalucia with my ex partner. We bought some land with a ruin just outside Velez Rubio and eventually built a house there but we made the mistake of not being able to live in it sustainably. Eventually the relationship dissolved – things change and life moves on. I can understand your loneliness and devastation at the loss of your partner and admire your courage in sticking with your dream. Your vision is fantastic and I wish we could have swapped ideas and experiences with you at the time. Living in Spain had always been my dream and I never regret the opportunity I took to move there for those 6 years. Living back in the UK since 2009 and I’m fairly happy. For me Bristol – where I live – is like a halfway house between Spain and England as there are so many Spanish living here – but I do miss Andalucia (I won’t say “Spain” because it is so different to the rest of Spain) a great deal and especially the Spanish way of looking at things and living life. Good luck in your search for a soul mate and in your future wherever that may be.

  4. Riginap@hotmail.com said:

    Really beautiful story and i shared your ad on my page facebook. Me and my friend are willing to live sustainable. We are at the moment saving money to buy a plot in spain or portugal. We will be visiting some regions of spain this september oktober in order to find our dream piece of land. Unfortunately we have a tight budget so we cant go for this one. But its really beautiful.

  5. Gisela Posch said:

    Hi Phi!
    I feel it’s time for me to follow my heart and take responsibility for a piece of land like el pocito. Can We get in touch? Maybe via mail adress?
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and dreams.

  6. Tara reddy said:

    I am
    Firstly sorry for your loss and secondly thank you for sharing your wonderful story with us all .. You are both an inspiration and I would really like to know more and come to visit with a view of continuing the beautiful history you have both created..

  7. Nicki Garcia said:

    Beautiful……such dedication…Bless You !!

  8. Oak said:

    “This is the plain fact of the matter, what happens when you act sustainably with a living organism you are totally dependent on. Anyone can do the maths and see that.”

    unsustainably !

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